HIV survivor warns of dangerous habits
By TOM HALLECK | Sep. 23, 2005Scott Fried made one mistake, and he contracted HIV. Since then, he has toured the country, warning college-age kids that one mistake is all it takes.The motivational speaker stopped at UB Wednesday night, sharing his personal experiences in the first of a series of lectures, sponsored by Hillel of Buffalo, on topics such as HIV, Judaism, sexuality and eating disorders.Fried has fought HIV for 18 years and has spent the last thirteen of them talking to young people about the dangers of unsafe behaviors such as unprotected sex, self-mutilation and drug abuse.As a young off-Broadway stagehand, Fried said contracted HIV in what he described as his only unsafe sexual encounter."I got infected the first time I had unsafe sex," he said.Fried, 42, used experiences from his own life to relate to his audience, as well as an approach that he described as "open and honest."He said the loneliness and depression that he felt as a university student led him down a destructive path.













